Was reading a long overdue Oct 05 issue of cosmopolitan and i came across to this article "How to Handle a Bitch". 
it has given some really good tips on how to handle thy beyatch.
i think that this is an important know-how for everybody, not only ladies. Its an article that is too good not to share…
Firstly, in the world there are two types of bitches :
- the obvious in-your-face bitch (define as the demanding, snarling, screaming boss)
- the underhanded bitch (define as that sweet-as-pie pal who says, "stress makes you break out too?"
Second, ignoring them is NOT the answer. In fact, if you don’t go head-to-head, the attacks will escalate!!
go by the 3 golden rules, i somewhat have seen these rules from the "孙子兵法", guessed once you understand them u will 百战百胜 :
Rule 1
KNOW THY ENEMY
How you handle the bitch depends on her style.
" An in-your-face bitch gets off on the drama of conflict and seeing it escalate, so fend her off with a question. Respond to her with harsh words by asking ‘Really? Why do you say that?’ Forcing her to explain herself.
You must tweak the technique, however, if the bitch has more power than you do. For instance, even though your boss has a bad attitude, you still need to show her respect. So let her rant, than engage her a few hours later. Say something like ‘Is there anything i can do differently? You seem displeased earlier’ It employs the same make-her-explain-herself tactic, but its veiled in a nicer manner. Plus managers often don’t know how nasty they can be until you call then out on it.
On the other hand, an underhanded bitch favours sabotage. She’ll undermine you by spreading rumours, making ‘harmless’ comments that stings, and incriminating you when she messes up ("That’s her job"). But one of her weakness is that she wants to be liked. This type of bitch is extemely threatened by other women and craves approval. Rebut with her ‘friendly’ conversations, make her flustered, possibly embarrassed, and should think twice before interacting with you like that again.
Another habit that protects you from a sly one: Don’t give her any personal info that she can twist to eat away at your self-esteem. Cut her off her ammunition and she’ll lose her backstabbing power."
I call these bitches pathetic little creatures that seeks attention and do not know what harm they are causing to themselves and others. Others will recover and learn from it, but they will still continue to hunt the next prey, not knowing what harm they have caused to their long built reputation and image.
Rule 2
KEEP HER CLOSE
Friendly is the last thing you feel like being when faced with aggressive behavior, but that surprised factor can get a bitch to heel.
"’Think about it: When was the last time someone was genuinely (as in not out of holy fear) nice to a woman like this?’ You will catch her off guard and make her feel better, and you may just kill her bitchy impulses toward you with your random display of kindness."
I know its difficult to be nice to somebody you detest, and being nice and keeping her close makes us feels plastic. But i guessed that’s how the world works, we have to learn to be plastics at time.
Rule 3
NEVER SHOW FEAR
When making an attack, bitches have different styles, but they generally have the same goal: to get an reaction out of you.
"When you’re attacked, your fight-or-flight instinct kicks in, causing you to either yell back or cower - which is exactly what she wants. So a key step in getting control of a bitch attack in the moment is getting control of yourself. As soon as you feel your hackles go up or your heart start pounding faster, take a few deep breaths, this will give you time to override your natural responses.
Then, to send the messgae loud and clear that she hasn’t gotten you, you keep your voice down. And watch your body doesn’t betray you. Keep your shoulders back and maintain eye contact. She’ll be watching signs of defeat in your body language too.
In the face of a stealth attack, consider this: An underhanded bitch is convert because she’s chicken. She attackes through cruel jokes and backhanded compliments because they are easy to laugh off or deny, which makes it hard to catch her. So to take control, push her to elaborate. If she makes a sarcastic remark, especially in public, say ‘That sounded sarcastic. I’m not sure what you meant by that.’ By putting her on the spot, she’ll become self-conciscious and likely to drop it, so ultimately, the power shifts to your camp."
In my option, there’s a third kind of bitch! and its the worst kind, she’s the kind that bitches about you no matter she is the in-your-face bitch or the underhanded bitch, she bitches about you behind your back and seem super nice to you infront. These type of bitches are chicken, cos they are afraid that they will get confronted and dare not face the reality. haha. PATHETIC!
So dear friends, please please please, i know that we are all climbing up the coporate ladder and would strive to be the best. But do not ended up being called a bitch, cos most nasty women almost never recognize themselves.